- Compromise. Sometimes, it's not always worth the stress to argue. Give in once in awhile.
- Write down your thoughts. Have you ever typed an email to a friend about your lousy day and felt better afterward? Why not grab a pen and paper and write down what's going on in your life. Keeping a journal can be a great way to get things off your chest and work through issues. Later, you can go back and read through your journal and see how much progress you've made.
- Help others. Helping someone else can help you. Help your neighbor, or volunteer in your community.
- Get a hobby. Find something you enjoy. Make sure to give yourself time to explore your interests.
- Set limits. When it comes to things like work and family, figure out what you can really do. There are only so many hours in the day. Set limits with yourself and others. Don't be afraid to say NO to requests for your time and energy.
- Plan your time. Think ahead about how you're going to spend your time. Write a to-do list. Figure out what's most important to do.
- Don't deal with stress in unhealthy ways. This includes drinking too much alcohol, using drugs, smoking, or overeating.
Adapted in part from The National Women's Health Information Center (www.womenshealth.gov)