How To Be Truly Happy

Get a hobby
If you've realized a creative pastime can make you
content but you have
difficulty fitting one into your packed schedule, consider this: "Creativity helps people adapt to life by making them more flexible and open to experiences," says Dean Keith Simonton,
Ph.D. "This, in turn, fosters self-esteem and satisfaction." Since the benefits come from the process rather than the product, you don't have to paint like Picasso to feel the effect. If a drawing class seems too ambitious, add an "openness hour" to your day several times a week, suggests Simonton. During that time, try something that sparks your curiosity; perhaps cooking a new recipe or reading poetry. Another way to broaden your horizons is to change your routine. Try a
different restaurant or take in a concert rather than a
movie. Break from the daily grind and watch as your
mind expands-and your
happiness level rises.
Simplify your life
Money doesn't buy happiness. In fact, extra dough not only fails to bring joy after basic needs are met,
it actually prevents it. "People who say making a lot of money is important to them are more likely to
experience depression, anxiety, and headaches-and less likely to report being satisfied with their lives," says Tim Kasser, Ph.D., author of The High Price of Materialism. According to Kasser's research, time affluence-
feeling you have enough time to pursue the things you want to-is a better predictor of a satisfied life than income. To avoid thinking about material possessions, drop catalogs into the recycling bin before flipping through them, or suggest to a friend that you catch up over tea rather than at the mall. And if that rush you get from buying a new outfit intervenes, just remember: "Those pleasures only bring the kind of happiness that
disappears quickly," says Kasser. "To achieve lasting contentment, you need to focus on experiences, not things."
Decide, and then move on
Less is truly more when it comes to choices. Too
many options can paralyze you, prompt you to make a poor decision, or leave you second-guessing yourself. A recent study published in the Journal of Consumer Research found that the fewer stores people went to,
the easier it was for them to make decisions-and the more content they felt. "When we think there's a more attractive alternative out there, even our good decisions leave us unsatisfied," says Barry Schwartz, Ph.D., author of The Paradox of Choice. "People who continually seek out the best of everything-be it a job, a mate, or a laptop-are more stressed and less fulfilled."
To reduce anxiety, don't revisit a decision once it's made. "Say to yourself that good enough is good enough," suggests Schwartz. "Keep repeating the mantra until you believe it. At first it will be unsettling, but after
a few weeks, you'll feel liberated." Finally, arbitrarily limit your options-whether you're searching for a soul
mate or a sole mate. "Make a rule: 'Three online profiles and I pick, or two stores and I decide.' End of story."







