It’s frustrating when you’re pumped up about a steamy sack session with your guy, and then he goes limp or climaxes in record speed. You’re left considering heading to the bathroom to pull out your vibe, while he’s dealing with a serious ego blow.

Sure, talking about his bedroom problems can be incredibly awkward, but for the sake of your relationship—and for maximum personal pleasure—it’s worth it. Focusing on intimacy makes you feel more connected, both inside the bedroom and out, says Bill Bercaw, a sex therapist and coauthor (with wife Ginger) of the upcoming From the Living Room to the Bedroom: The Modern Couple's Guide to Sexual Abundance and Lasting Intimacy (April 2014). Working through these situations will help you turn a mortifying moment into a mind-blowing sex life.

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