Boosting your pleasure big time may be as easy as making a few small tweaks to some common sex positions. “The secret to having more intense, enjoyable sex is to know how to angle yourself so that you’re hitting your most sensitive areas while allowing yourself to really let go and relax,” says Patricia Taylor, Ph.D., sex educator and author of the newly revised Expanded Orgasm. More pleasure may mean hitting the big O, but it also means feeling more turned on and connected to your body. No need to go through the entire Karma Sutra trying to find the best techniques to get you hot: Simply play around with these twists on classic positions to up the intensity.
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Many women like this position because you’re in control of the speed of the thrusting and the angle. To make it even more intense, instead of simply sitting on top of him, get on your knees while bending forward so you’re leaning toward his face, then move in and out of him nice and slow. “This will help his penis hit your G spot while allowing you to angle your clit on his shaft as you use your arms to hold onto him for balance,” Taylor says. Starting off slow and increasing the speed is key because you want to make sure you’re really warmed up: When you’re engorged your clitoris—which starts out as a small pinpoint located just above the opening to your vagina—grows and drops lower, and the larger area of sensation increases your ability to orgasm. Plus this slightly shifted position allows you to move however you’d like. “If you’re in the mood for experimenting, have your guy wear a vibrating cock ring since you have a lot of control in this position to really increase your sensation,” Taylor says.
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