"Couples can make themselves
crazy trying to do it all," says
therapist Diana Gasperoni, founder
of the New York City counseling
service the Relationship Project.
"But the best holiday memories
come from connecting." For your
most harmonious holiday yet...0
- Just say no to travel
Opting to stay home will make the season
more intimate, so reschedule the
family reunion. Plus, you'll spend less
on airfare during the off-season.
- Expect The Expected
"You may think that if your partner loved you
he'd know just what to give. But
guys aren't mind readers," she says.
Decide what you want and tell him.
- Plot Wisely
Avoid meltdowns by arranging a planning night where
you write your events on a calendar.
"And remember," says Gasperoni,
"every year it all gets done."