The Best G-Spot Vibrators, According to Sex Educators
The 411 On the G-Spot
"The G-spot is a zone of tissues and nerves in people with vaginas that exists somewhere between the vagina and the urethra (the exact spot varies by body)," explains Che Che Luna, a sensuality coach and sex educator with Allbodies an online platform for reproductive and sexual health. Some people find stimulation of this area reallyyy pleasurable.
To find yours, insert a finger (or two) into your vagina and feel for a slightly spongier, walnut-sized patch of tissue along the front vaginal wall. Apply pressure to that spot with a "come hither" motion. But as Luna explains, "Every body is different and the exact location of this zone varies from person to person, so you may have to do some feeling around." (Have at it! Masturbation is good for you, after all).
How will you know when you found your g-spot? "Some people describe stimulation of the G-spot as a deep, internal sensation that intensifies through stimulation," says Luna. But, others won't feel anything different at all. "If you don't experience pleasure from it, don't worry! You're not broken and there's nothing wrong or missing in your genitals," she says. It's like how some people experience pleasure from getting their hair pulled, and others don't. Or how some people love clit suction toys, while other people find them ticklish, she explains.
Still, as the cliché goes, the only way to know is to try! That's why Luna recommends doing some self-exploration. And for that, a G-spot toy comes in clutch.
First Time G-Spot Tulip Intimate Vibe
This babe may not look like much, but egg-on-a-stick toys (as they're colloquially called) are seriously underrated. "This toy is one of the most intuitive on the market, which makes it a great pick for beginners," says Jill McDevitt, Ph.D., sexologist with CalExotics. Plus, at ~12 bucks, it'is like, 1/15 the price some of the other vibes on the list. So, if you don't *know* you like G-spot play, it's a great stepping stone (err, toy). "The bulbous, curved head is large, firm, and offers pinpointed g-spot action," she says.
Oh, and because the toy is 8 inches long, it can also be used to reach your anterior fornix erogenous zone (aka your A-spot), which is a patch of tissue a few inches deeper than the G-spot that some folks find orgasmic. (BTW: Did you know the A-Spot is one of the many reasons anal can feel good?).
Exotics Novelties Posh 10-Function Teaser
For a G-spot vibe that'll give you the sensation of being full, try this vibe by Calexotics. It's slightly thicker and is crafted with textured ribbing which you'll be able to enjoy against your inner vaginal wall.
Keep in mind: "This toy has a less dramatic curve than some G-Spot toys, so it's best for people who already know where their G-spot is, as opposed to people are new to stimulation there," says McDevitt. Once you know where to look (again: about two inches in and toward the front) this vibe provides great but gentle stimulation. Oh, and as the name suggests it has 10 different vibration settings that span from 'buzz lite' to 'rumbly and tumbly'.
Mr. Rabbit Vibe
Satisfyer may be known for their clit suction vibes, but I'm *obsessed* with their classic vibes (See: I've Tried 100+ Vibrators—and My Favorite is the Yummy Sunshine Vibe by Satisfyer). Trust, their take on the classic rabbit vibe, Mr. Rabbit, is as amazing as I expected it to be. What do I like about it? The wide span of intensities offered in their 12 vibration patterns—with the lowest being seriously low and the highest rivaling the Hitachi.
"This tip has a narrower angle and curves upward, so you can arouse the g-spot with a shallower penetration," says Megwyn White, somatic sensuality guide and director of education with Satisfyer. And, there's also an external tip for clitoral stimulation. "The clit piece of the toy is flexible and has its own motor so both your g-spot and clit can be surrounded in soft vibrational heaven." Everybunny needs somebunny? No, everybody needs this rabbit vibe.
PS: While masturbating with lube always makes it like, 10x better, this toy is made of sexy, silky silicone that helps minimize friction between your body and the toy even without lube. (See more: Everything You Need To Know About Lube).
Not all dildos and vibes look like penises, and this periwinkle cutie is proof. With ~4 insertable inches, strong vibrations that run from shaft to the curved tip, and the shape is perfect for people looking to explore the pleasure potential of their G-spot. And since it's made of silky, body-safe silicone, it's waterproof and easy to clean. (Related: 10 Waterproof Vibrators for Solo or Partner Shower Sex)
White's recommendation? "Try stimulating the external clitoris at the same time with your other hand while you explore lifting and drawing this vibe out to stroke the G-spot." Prepare yourself: This baby is the ultimate charmer.
Lelo Mona Wave
If you like the sensation of a partner pressing their finger against your G-spot, you'll love the Mona. The tip of this wand-like toy moves in back and forth like fingers with pressure and localized accuracy. (Related: The Best Way to Clean Your Sex Toys).
The sensation really isn't like other vibrators, says psychologist Laurie Mintz, Ph.D., and author of Becoming Cliterate. "It moves like a finger might. And because it's a wand, it's great for those who G-spot stimulation without clitoral stimulation."
For a sex toy that looks like a luxe AF baton or paper-weight (aka something you can definitely leave out on the nightstand)? Try the Isla. This elegant beauty is contoured for deep-reaching G-spot action: It has six sensation options, an easy-to-hold handle, and six inches of length.
Plus, the controls are super intuitive. The buttons are positioned in such a way that, when you're holding the handle, you still have easy access to the plus and minus buttons. That means you don't have to remove the toy from your bod to increase or decrease the intensity. Constant stimulation? Sign me up. (Related: 5 Luxe Vibrators Worth The Price Tag).
You guys (!!) this sex toy literally bends. I know, after reading the name you might be thinking, 'well, duh!' This is a serious perk because it means everyone, regardless of where their G-spot is, can enjoy this toy.
"As far as internal vibrators go, Bender is on the slimmer side but delivers just as much power as a thicker, larger vibe," says Polly Rodriguez, co-founder of Unbound, the company responsible for this pastel cutie. Because of its shape and flexibility, it can also be used on your clitoris, nipples, or as a teasing tool on your partner.
Sexpert tip: "Pair it with OMG-Spot gel, which uses Japanese peppermint oil and L-Arginine to increase the size and the sensitivity of the G-spot, making it easier to find," she suggests. Noted.
In the market for a G-spot toy that makes you feel like royalty you are? Sex educator Cassandra Corrado of O.school recommends this vv fancy vibrator by Fun Factory. The Stronic G uses hands-free thrusting technology that creates the sensation of a penis or dildo moving in and out of you at a shallow angle. But the best part? You're in fullll control of exactly how deep, how fast, and how direct the thrusting sensation is. Play around with the 10 different vibration/thrusting settings and find what works best for your body.
Oh, and because the toy is longer than some of the others on the list, it's also a great option if you like deep penetration. (Related: The Best Sex Positions For Women).
California Dreaming Santa Monica Starlet
If the name alone doesn't sell you, this will: This rabbit-inspired vibrator doesn't actually vibrate, it thumps. (Yes, really. That's not a rabbit joke.)
"The tip provides a back and forth thumping action over the G-Spot," explains sex educator Micki Allen with O.school."The technology is so amazing, and I love this toy even though I'm not usually in love with rabbit-style vibes."
Another perk? The G-spot nub can be controlled separately from the clit nub's vibrations. This comes in handy because, usually, both sweet-spots need a slightly different kind of attention. It's also water-proof and reasonably priced #winning. (Related: How to Find a Safe and Quality Sex Toy, Without Breaking the Bank).
If you're looking at this baby and thinking, this isn't a G-spot vibe… it's a wand-vibe, you're right and wrong. (Confused? Here's a breakdown of 12 of the most common types of sex toys.) The Le Wand is indeed a wand vibe (a rather large one at that), but there are G-spot attachments available, specifically the Curve Silicone Attachment, that'll hit your OMG spot with some serious power, says Corrado.
This babe is best for people who already have the Le Wand, those who *know* they love clit stimulation, are testing the waters with G-spot play, and whose G-spot isn't super sensitive (and requires some intense rumbling sensations) to feel G-O-O-D.